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The Story of Two Birds: A Reflection on Leadership and Mentorship

In the ancient Indian text, the Mundaka Upanishad, there is a profound story about two birds perched on the same tree. One bird consumes the tree’s fruits, some sweet, some bitter while the other simply observes, serene and detached.


The bird that eats the fruits symbolises the part of us that is deeply engaged with life—the aspect that lives, learns, and grows through direct interaction with the world. This bird experiences both the sweet pleasures and the bitter challenges life offers, representing how we gain wisdom and knowledge through experience.


The observing bird, perched quietly and detached, remains serene, watching without judgment. It embodies a state of calm awareness and wisdom, detached from the fluctuations of life.


Though the two birds may seem separate, they are deeply interconnected, representing the dual aspects of human nature—action and awareness. One cannot exist without the other.


Reimagining the Story for Modern Context:


Often interpreted as an allegory for the dual aspects of human existence experiencing self and witnessing self this story can be reimagined within the context of organisational leadership and mentorship.


Let’s consider the bird eating the fruit as the mentor and the bird observing as the mentee. Together, they provide a powerful framework for understanding how mentorship and leadership can shape organizational culture and foster individual growth.


The Mentor: The Bird Eating the Fruit


The bird consuming the fruits represents the mentor an active leader who engages with the world, experiences both sweet successes and bitter failures, and learns from them. This bird teaches through action, demonstrating how to navigate challenges and opportunities.

1. Leading by Example

Mentors do not just teach—they embody the lessons they want their mentees to learn. By demonstrating how to handle both success and failure with humility and grace, mentors set a standard for behavior that mentees can emulate.

2. Sharing Wisdom Through Experience

Having tasted the fruits of life, mentors possess the wisdom to guide others. They offer practical advice and emotional support drawn from their own experiences.

3. Navigating Dualities

Life in an organization is filled with both highs and lows. The mentor’s ability to handle both with equanimity demonstrates resilience, a crucial trait for any leader or mentee to develop.


The Mentee: The Bird Observing


The observing bird symbolises the mentee someone who learns through watching, reflecting, and internalising the mentor’s actions and decisions.

1. Learning Through Observation

Just as the observing bird watches silently, mentees absorb lessons from their mentors’ behavior. They learn not only from successes but also from how their mentors navigate failures.

2. Reflective Growth

The mentee is not passive; they actively reflect on what they observe. This reflection helps them develop critical thinking skills and understand the nuances of leadership.

3. Awakening Potential

Over time, the mentee realises their own potential, inspired by the mentor’s journey. This mirrors the observing bird’s ultimate understanding of its connection to the experiencing bird in the story.


Implications for Organizational Leadership


This ancient story offers timeless lessons for modern leaders and organisations.

1. Mentors as Role Models

Leaders are always being observed, whether they realize it or not. Their actions, reactions, and decisions serve as lessons for their teams. By being mindful of their behavior, leaders can become positive role models for their mentees.

2. Building a Culture of Reflection

Just as the observing bird learns through reflection, organisations can encourage a culture where individuals take time to reflect on their experiences and learn from them. This fosters continuous growth and improvement.

3. Mutual Growth

Mentorship is a two-way relationship. While mentees grow by observing and learning, mentors also evolve through the process of guiding others, much like the two birds in the story are deeply connected.


Final Thoughts


By understanding the dynamics of the two birds, mentor and mentee we can create an environment where individuals thrive, relationships deepen, and organisations flourish.


The story of the two birds reminds us that leadership and mentorship are not about perfection; they are about presence, purpose, and progression. As mentors, we engage with life’s challenges and opportunities, offering lessons through our actions. As mentees, we observe, reflect, and grow, eventually realising our own potential.


In the end, true leadership lies in recognising this interconnected journey, where every leader is also a mentee, and every mentee has the potential to lead.


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